A topic that has been subtly lingering for months was answered with remarkable clarity during Camila Cabello’s latest podcast appearance: Why did she and Shawn Mendes split up again? The couple’s second breakup came almost as quickly as their kiss under the California lights following a well reported reunion at Coachella in April 2023. Camila is now describing how things fell apart in a reasoned, rather than resentful, manner with a voice that is refreshingly honest.
In an interview with the “Call Her Daddy” podcast in March, Camila said she has an innate desire to rekindle past relationships. She publicly declared, “I’m a fan,” alluding to giving ex-partners another chance. Many listeners found the sentiment to be quite true to their own lives, reflecting a deeper pattern of conduct rather than only an emotional urge. She jokingly said, “You can’t forbid things from me.” “All I want to do is do them more.” This admission encapsulated her impulsive personality and somewhat clarified her want to rekindle her relationship with Shawn.
Shawn Mendes & Camila Cabello: Relationship Timeline and Career Details
| Category | Shawn Mendes | Camila Cabello |
|---|---|---|
| Full Name | Shawn Peter Raul Mendes | Karla Camila Cabello Estrabao |
| Date of Birth | August 8, 1998 | March 3, 1997 |
| Nationality | Canadian | Cuban-American |
| Primary Occupation | Singer, Songwriter | Singer, Songwriter, Actress |
| Notable Songs | “Stitches,” “Treat You Better,” “It’ll Be Okay” | “Havana,” “Señorita,” “Never Be the Same” |
| Relationship Timeline | 2019–2021; briefly reunited in April–June 2023 | 2019–2021; briefly reunited in April–June 2023 |
| Viral Public Reunion | Coachella, April 2023 | Coachella, April 2023 |
| Breakup Confirmed Again | Summer 2023 | Summer 2023 |
Their brief meeting in 2023 began in the bright swirl of Coachella stage lights rather than behind closed doors. The images, which featured handshakes, kisses, and the relaxed body language of two individuals who had once had a romantic relationship on stage and in the studio, went viral. Supporters were excited and believed that this was their second chance. But the vigor subsided, silently and swiftly. Camila claims that “it wasn’t even a decision” to break up once more. “It didn’t feel quite right.”
Her remarks were really powerful in piercing the myths that frequently surrounds famous relationships. She added, “It took us both less time to realize that.” “We didn’t have to put in as much effort to make it work.” Their choice to go without causing any public controversy felt almost revolutionary in a field where appearances are everything.
However, things weren’t always this way. After two years of dating, their initial breakup in 2021 felt more intense and emotionally dragged out. A picture of unwavering respect was created by their combined Instagram statement. They added, “Our love for one another as humans is stronger than ever,” emphasizing a connection that many at the time thought might only be stopped rather than ended.
After they split up, Shawn turned his emotions into music. Fans responded emotionally to the publication of “It’ll Be Okay” a few weeks later, which was a subtly moving meditation on the emotional burden of the split. The song’s lyrics, which were laced with themes of loss and resignation, told a story that sounded painfully honest—like someone seeking emotional safety after a storm had passed.
However, Camila has been especially outspoken about the difficulties of managing love while being constantly watched by the public. She talked about how social media frequently intruded on their relationship’s emotional seclusion in an interview with Glamour. They tried to ignore it, but the online conversation “inevitably seeped in.” She acknowledged that treatment assisted her in navigating the deluge of rumors and opinions, calling the emotional burden “very, very challenging.”
Long before the first breakup, the emotional toll was noticeable. Only a few weeks prior to their first breakup, in September 2021, Camila was seen sobbing while having lunch with Shawn. Although the reasons were never formally stated, it was implied that the pair was already dealing with emotional dissonance in the background.
The dynamic was also greatly influenced by their time spent together during the COVID-19 pandemic. They spent an abnormally long time together while quarantined together in Miami during the shutdown. They were “in love and best friends,” but ultimately felt they needed to take a break, according to InTouch Weekly. According to a source, “they helped each other a lot during the hectic past year.” However, emotional tiredness cannot always be compensated for by mutual support.
This pair is especially noteworthy for the way they have chosen to handle their separations. With affection and respect, Camila described Shawn as “such a good person” and said, “some people have exes who are awful—he is not.” This viewpoint, which reframes breakups as important stages toward personal progress rather than failures, is remarkably mature.
Additionally, their split is consistent with a larger trend of public partnerships acquiring new vocabulary. Shawn and Camila have set an example for a more civil relationship, in contrast to many celebrity partnerships that terminate in venomous allegations or social media subtweets. Their experience is consistent with other well-known divorces, such as the recent co-parenting attempts by Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner or even the deliberate separation of Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin. Not only are these couples divorcing, but they are also changing the way that love stories are perceived by the general public.
Younger fans will especially benefit from this change. They are being exposed to more emotionally savvy models of love and grief by hearing their role models talk openly about emotional clarity and respect for one another. Camila and Shawn’s path affirms the more subdued, challenging realities—that some relationships change, that timing is important, and that it’s acceptable to outgrow someone you once loved—instead of exalting unending passion.
Camila stated that she was impetuous but not illogical in her desire to get back in touch with Shawn. It was about respecting an emotion, allowing curiosity to flourish, and then embracing the truth when it emerged. She smiled softly and remarked, “It was a fun moment.” “But it simply did not fit.” Her clarity now feels incredibly resilient, indicating both professional and emotional improvement.
